The phrase ‘bare minimum’ has garnered significant attention, encapsulating the notion of putting forth minimal effort in relationships. Whether it’s with family, partners, siblings, or friends, many of us settle for what we’ve known since birth, often unaware of the potential for deeper connections.

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs outlines our progression from basic necessities like safety and shelter to self-realization. While this journey seems straightforward, not everyone smoothly advances through the stages; some remain entrenched in the foundational level, unable to satisfy their deeper emotional needs.

“Saw it in his eyes… 9 years old, in pain, fever escalating, crying for help. He’s a child; he doesn’t need to be strong; he needs to be cuddled, cared for, loved… Needles hurt… He already had one, and the caring doctor asked to keep the butterfly needles in case he needed surgery. Dad and mom, standing on their feet, demanding it to be taken away, insisting their son must be strong, claiming there’s nothing serious with him… After an exchange of a couple of sentences, his voice rose, letting it out. Tears streaming down his face, despair in his eyes… It’s the bare minimum.”

Rebelling against this acquiescence to mediocrity in relationships becomes imperative for personal development. It’s a challenging endeavor, yet crucial for discovering genuine worth and fulfillment in life..